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PILLOW TALKS are a soft landing space for you to release the roles and responsibilities of performative masculinity - and just be.

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I’m Astara - Sound, Touch, and Cuddle Therapist

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Pillow Talks are your space

To be real. Raw. Messy. Flawed.

Here, you don’t have to say the right things or find the solution. You don’t have to think. You don’t have to decide. You don’t have to plan and pay - okay, you do have to pay - but that’s it. You don’t have to do anything else except show up exactly as you are with no mask or performance. Just YOU. For one hour. Completely unfiltered.

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How can I Serve you?

Phone - $150/hr

Video - $200/hr

In Person - $250/hr

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ALL EXPERIENCES ARE PRIVATE, DISCREET, AND HIPAA COMPLIANT.

Astara Solae

PILLOW TALKS takes everything I learned after nearly four years of traveling the country as a Cuddle Therapist, listening deeply to men from all walks of life to understand what really brought them into my care.

I listened for the deeper longing beneath touch, then brought THAT out of the cuddle room and made it available wherever you are in the world.

Learn more about my background here or text me to ask whatever you’d like.

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What People Say…

  • "From the very beginning, she creates a warm, welcoming atmosphere that immediately puts you at ease. Her presence feels intentional and calming, and she carries herself with a unique, almost ceremonial energy that makes the entire experience feel special.

    Sam

  • "What a great time I had with solae today! She instantly exudes confidence and trust. Professional yet silly, beautiful laugh and intense listener. I never talk and she had me spilling my guts right away! The energy she gives off and transfers will have me powered for weeks! Highly recommend"

    Thomas

  • "Astara was the best, she made me feel comfortable right off the bat - she is a true gem, and an amazing spirit!"

    Mike

  • "Her presence carries a rare kind of warmth. From the very beginning, there was an immediate sense of safety and acceptance, accompanied by a surprising feeling of familiarity, as though we had known each other long before the session began. Time itself seemed to slow and soften."

    Isaac

  • "It was so good that I extended it from 2 hours to 3. She's easy to talk to, kind, compassionate and has great energy."

    Chris

  • "I’ve never experienced anything quite like my session with her. What she brings to cuddling is truly unmatched. From start to finish, I felt her energy in every moment through her soft touch, gentle caresses, and warm, tight hugs. 90 minutes wasn’t nearly enough, and even now, I can still feel the impression she left on me."

    Ryan

  • "She is very welcoming and the session was amazing. 90 mins was too short."

    Josh

  • "She's one of the people who create an easy and warm rapport very quick."

    Blake

  • "I genuinely cannot say enough about how amazing it was!"

    Jeff

  • "An absolutely perfect cuddle session with Solae. Great to talk to, beautiful setting, and warmth exudes from her like the sun.

    Derek

  • "Astara is super professional, caring, and sweet. I was having a rough couple days but she instantly made me feel better! Also, she created a very relaxing environment."

    Sanjay

  • "Astara is one of a kind. She’s caring, empathetic, intelligent, and warm. I felt at ease immediately and throughout. She’s such a wonderful person and the positive energy she gives off made me feel heard and understood. She’s just amazing."

    Ross

  • "Just had a very enjoyable long virtual cuddle with Solae. She's an engaged and attentive listener, even with a chatterbox like me."

    Scott

  • "Felt like hanging out with an old friend. She was very focused on me and making sure I was comfortable and relaxed. Time went fast, will have to book longer next time."

    Rusty

  • "Astara is very skillful and knowledgeable. She made me feel that we already know each other. It was very safe, relaxing, comforting, respectful and friendly session with her. I will see her again for sure.

    Vanam

  • "Had the best experience with Solae. She is easy to talk to and very welcoming. I wish I could give her more stars just amazing."

    Sameer

  • "Astara is the embodiment of love, gentleness and caring. So giving. So beautiful inside and out."

    Nick

  • "She’s the best! Warm, inviting, and friendly. Solae has a comfy, professional space. Very nice and soothing music."

    Cam

  • "I found it very easy to talk with Astara. She’s really nice and makes you feel comfortable."

    Jack

  • "She is so friendly and immediately made me feel totally comfortable."

    Maurice

  • "Absolutely perfect is the best way to describe her! From the moment you walk in, you know you have found someone special. She was immediately warm, friendly and inviting. Her space is cozy, the music was soothing, even her voice will make you melt. She has beautiful energy and was truly amazing. I really can't put it into works how grateful I am to have met her. She is like no other.....❤️

    Joel

  • "She is an amazing person and I highly recommend her. I scheduled 3 hours and I'm glad I did. Even 3 hours went by before I knew it. She is affectionate and attentive and not distracted by anything else going on. Her focus is on the session. Her place is safe, quiet and cozy. Please treat her well.

    Juan

  • "Best cuddler I’ve been with so far! I’m an introvert through and through but we figured it out together without having to say much. I really reached a level of peace and comfort that was so soothing. Highly recommend and am going back for another session soon"

    Anthony

  • "Astara is just simply amazing. She gave me exactly the session I needed and didn’t even know I wanted. Her touch and energy is absolutely contagious. Honestly, I’m at a loss of words to describe just how spectacular she is. Thank you so much for the amazing and rejuvenating session."

    Steve

  • "Astara is one of the best cuddle sessions I've had. Very professional in setting everything up, and then a super intuitive cuddler. She gave me exactly the session I wanted, without me having to say much. She's easy to connect with, and I quickly fell into that "cuddle space" with her."

    Paul

  • "Astara knows how to connect with someone. She was exactly what I needed."

    Brandon

  • "Solae is an angel. She has the skills to soften hearts and provide comfort to those in need. Her priority is your serenity. I'm looking forward to another session 💜☺️🥰"

    John

  • "One of the sweetest humans I’ve ever met! Such a warm and accepting spirit. She was also super accommodating"

    Tony

  • "5 Stars!! The session was the therapy and self care that I needed. I highly recommend her and definitely plan on future sessions. Her empathy is healing for the mind, body, and soul ✨️"

    Sean

  • "She is such an amazing personality and there was never a dull moment. Her positives and confident attitude is infectious. We had great conversation and cuddles. Highly recommend"

    Spencer

  • "She was attentive, made great conversation and respected boundaries. I left our session very relaxed and contented. After the crazy couple of weeks I’ve had, Solae was the cuddle I needed. Well done!"

    Kendall

  • " She is one of the most compassionate teachers out there. Her ability to help YOU heal yourself without relying on her is just amazing. Through the catalyst of working with her I have been able to find out who I am. She shows up in love. Every single session."

    Tony

  • "She is a talented healer who has put years into honing her craft. The experiences and profound insight I've gained from our sessions have brought invaluable improvements to my life. On top of that, Astara has a knack for combining her many different skillsets into an integrated modality."

    Ray

  • "I found myself awakening in a blissful state of mind. And, that was a pleasant surprise. I felt very relaxed and at peace during the entire process. Astara mentioned that the benefits would continue days after my initial service. I have found this to be true and I am planning to book my next round of sessions very soon."

    Johnny

  • "Working with Astara brought me immense peace of mind. For the first time in a while, I felt safe in my body and was able to truly let go."

    Cierra

  • "The body work with Astara allowed my body to speak. This allowed me to find my blockages which launched me forward to mental, financial, emotional, and spiritual freedom. I am genuinely grateful for this experience.

    Mary

  • "after just a few moments of conversing she felt so warm and inviting to talk to, that I spilled all the trauma and pain I could remember even from childhood. After her analysis of it she tapped into some things I totally forgot about and it resonated with me so deeply to the point that I carry the information with me til this day! "

    Brittany

  • "Every time I feel physically and spiritually refreshed. She's wonderfully talented at creating a calm, safe space for you to forget about the world and relax your energy. Solae is incredibly professional, respectful, and accommodating. I highly recommend booking with her!

    Johnny

  • ""During the session, I felt completely safe to let go, and that safety allowed for moments of profound emotional clarity, and the mental fog from stress and exhaustion was completely lifted. What impressed me most was how the therapy addressed not just the mind, but the body and spirit as well.""

    Sanket

  • "I've been working with Solae for the last 9 years. I believe she was meant to do this work, and if you let her, she'll help you find yourself, shield yourself, and most importantly, she'll help you love yourself."

    Rochelle

  • "I felt so good after one session of sound body touch therapy. My body felt relaxed , I was happy, I could feel tension leave my body. The whole experience was comfortable and relaxing, from being greeted to the end of the session, I was well taken care of."

    Kala

  • "In working with Solae through Cuddle Therapy over the past 2-3 years, I've come to deeply appreciate her compassion, attentiveness and keen counseling insights. She excels at creating safe, relaxing environments that calm your nerves and open the door to introspection and self-improvement at your pace."

    Adam

  • "The way she combines sound and grounding touch made it feel safe and natural to settle into myself, like my nervous system finally had room to breathe. It’s been fantastic working with her and getting the opportunity to experience this."

    Rylee

  • "Astara provided me a safe and comfortable space to be honest and truthful about my challenges and feelings and her feedback opened my eyes to things I had been either ignoring or denying about myself. The light she carries in her heart and spirit has been transformational to me, and I can't thank her enough or reccomend her high enough ti anyone who needs a positive change in their life."

    Marq

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